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Personal Finance: Pessimist or Frugalist? 1

Posted on October 18, 2009 by Lee

Is your glass half full, or half empty?

Generally when asked that question, my glass is most definitely half full.

Except where personal finance is concerned.

As my previous posting history suggests, I am naturally pessimistic in terms of my finances. But where does the line between being a frugalist and pessmist really get drawn?

For example, I have been salivating over getting a new mobile phone for the last 12 months. I have so far resisted the temptation on the basis of getting out of debt. Now that my employment situation looks less than 100% secure, I am resisting on the basis I do not want to be tied into a contract that I may not be able to afford if I get laid off.

But, being laid off is no certainty. The discussion at work has only just begun. I may not be laid off at all – yet I am already living like it is a dead certainty. I have trimmed my budget further, made some changes to my plan for debt freedom, and generally dug myself into a pit of despair over something that may never happen.

Is this healthy?

Is it just financial prudence?

Or am I holding myself back from happiness?

That isn’t to say a new phone would make me happy. I am pleased to report I have moved on from that stage of consumerism. However, when is – in terms of avoiding risk in your finances – too far?

Are Pessimism and Frugalism mutually exclusive? Can you be a Pessimistic Frugalist?

I think you can.

And worse, I don’t think that is bad thing. A new phone contract will work out more expensive for the phone I want (the shiny new Nokia N900), and I do not wish to risk being tied into paying £40 or so for the next 18 months just to get it.

The safer option, so say my pesimistic frugal self, is to buy the handset outright and use my existing SIM card that is ‘out of contract’, and now just rolling month-to-month. If I get laid off, I can cancel it at the drop of a hat without any penalty.

I will pay less over 18 months doing so as well.

Are you a pessimist in your finances? Am I going too far? Any thoughts gratefully received in the comments.

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Catching A Perception Shift 0

Posted on October 14, 2009 by Lee

A few days ago I wrote that for every two steps I take forward, I appear to suffer being pushed back three. I could not see any way out of the situation I was facing, and it started to eat me up from the inside.

I am a naturally pessimistic person and automatically assume the worst of any given situation or list of potential outcomes. When the second “we don’t have any money” email came out from the Big Boss at work, I concluded that redundancy was only a paycheck or two away. It may well be, but I don’t know that. It could conceivably be a year or two away. Equally I may escape redundancy altogether. It’s entirely an unknown quantity right now.

I saw my goal of debt freedom within my grasp. After freeing myself from consumer debt, I had planned to speed-save my way to paying for my divorce when the bill finally comes in and then starting to save for my future. Everything was going to plan until those darn emails. Debt-freedom suddenly vanished.

If I paid my debt off in November when the spreadsheet said I could – but then get made redundant – I won’t be able to pay my solicitor. Net result: Still in debt.

If I carry my consumer debt but set aside a proportion of my savings  I have to pay my solicitor when the time comes – but then get made redundant – I won’t have enough to pay the settlement fee on my loan. Net result: Still in debt.

Whichever way I regurgitated those scenarios, I came out with the same result. This virtually demolished all the emotional building up I’d given myself over the past year in short order. I felt (and still do to a degree) like I was back in December 2008 again: Out of time, out of options, and despite all my hard work, still out of money.

Then I read an article over at The Simple Dollar while randomly surfing. I don’t remember which and didn’t have the presence of mind at the time to bookmark it, so I am sorry I cannot share the origin of my epiphany with you. But it provided an amazing idea to me.

If I carry my consumer debt but set aside a proportion of my savings to pay my solicitor – and then get made redundant – I can claim on my Payment Protection Insurance! I am uncertain if the cover lasts for 12 months of payments or “until employed again” (I need to read the small print), but either way, it’s a winner. If they will cover 12 months of payments then my end-insurance settlement will be somewhere around the £4,000 mark. I will have that in savings even after paying off the solicitor, with any luck.

My perception shifted.

My goal is now to become notionally debt free, even if I don’t make it happen the moment it becomes theoretically  possible. When (if?) I get comfortably beyond a positive net worth, then I will consider actually making the settlement payment. Until then, I will keep my final piece of consumer debt. The insurance on it may perversely provide a lifeline allowing the payment of another, future debt.

So thank you Trent for indirectly providing me with the idea of how to dig myself out of a hole that has not been dug yet except in my head. But having the rope and tie-off point prepared should it happen is very comforting.

The take-away lesson from this is, I guess, however bad things seem – with enough effort and help from your friends, there is always a way out to be found.

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Frugal Friday! 21st Century Haggling in 6 Steps 2

Posted on October 09, 2009 by Lee

Every Friday I publish “Frugal Friday!“, an open-ended series with some of the simple and best ways to really save you money both now and in the future.

I was suffering from a small degree of writer’s block today. When I first came up with the idea of ‘Frugal Friday’, I had millions of post ideas zinging around in my brain, and it took much restraint not to write one huge article there and then with my ideas.

Now I have come to actually write another one, and my mind has gone blank. Every writer’s worst nightmare.

So I sat back and analysed myself for a moment. “What do I do that is frugal?”. I have written recently about saving money on your cooking and food shopping which are two of my passions, and something that everyone else has to do as well. I wrote about making good savings on the running cost of your car. Again, most people have a car and so that was a worthwhile article.

Then it suddenly dawned on me: haggling.

I have saved countless hundreds if not thousands of pounds over the years by haggling: with car dealers; shop assistants; telesales folks; a real varied range of different scenarios and people that more often than not, resulted in a saving.

Some examples from just this year include getting half-priced multiroom (for 2 rooms) for 12 months and a free Sky+ box for my satellite viewing pleasure. I got a 15% discount on my mobile phone bill without entering into a new contract. I even saved £150 off of a new set of tyres for my car.

So how do I did I do it, and how can you do the same?

Ask For a Discount

One of the simplest and most obvious ways is simply to ask for a discount. I once got 10% off in Curry’s just for asking if they could do me a discount! Front-line sales folks often have small discretionary powers when it comes to knocking value off of a product, but they won’t unless you ask.

Go Armed

I needed a new tyre earlier on this year on my car due to a slow-puncture in a non-repairable place. Two others were coming up for probably being illegal, so I decided I’d get them all replaced at the same time.

Unfortunately the ‘slow’ had suddenly gone from slow to not so slow, and I found myself in the nearest Kwik-Fit. While they are not exactly my first port of call for maintenance, it was a case of “needs must” as I would not have made it home.  After choosing my brand, I sat down in reception.

I didn’t read the free magazines or drink instant plastic coffee, however. I dug my mobile phone out of my pocket and began price hunting for the brand and model of tyre I had just been cajoled by circumstance into purchasing. Unsurprisingly, the price I was paying was well over the odds of what I could have paid if I had ordered online.

When the chap called me over to pay, I asked for a discount. When he replied that the “price was good” already, I showed him my findings. Even my Ford dealer was coming out cheaper than what they were charging, and that was saying something. I walked out after a few more minutes of discussion with over £150 discount applied.

A Warning Shot

This works really well for services provided on a monthly basis such as satellite TV or cable, mobile phones, insurances, credit cards and so on. Mention that you are “considering leaving for another provider” and many customer service agents will launch into retention mode. How far you get depends on who you get, and what the company is, but sometimes this is all you need do.

I did this to Sky earlier in the year, and got offered Sky+ for free instead of the usual £60 installation. A good result. You can do the same with your credit card if you don’t like the interest rate, or your cell phone package, or your gym membership or any number of regularly paid for services.

Make The Explicit Threat

Sometimes though merely thinking aloud to a customer service agent is not sufficient. Sometimes you must explicitly state “I wish to cancel my account” before they will pass you through to the Retention Team. These folks have enormous power, and can make the world move if they like you enough and you are otherwise profitable.

I escalated my Warning Shot to Sky to an Explicit Threat and the tone of the conversation changed. It was no longer a cheerful discussion, it was pure business: They wanted mine, and they would clearly work to get it. In the end I settled for a free Sky+ box, free installation, and half-priced multiroom x2 for 12 months.

Don’t Be Afraid to Back Down

Sometimes, despite escalating through the stages of Asking, Arming, Warning and Threatening, you get met with the grim response of “very well. Your account will be cancelled.”

Ack! They have called your bluff.

You now have two options. You can back-pedal if you wish. “I should really discuss this with my partner first. I will get back to you on this” is a good back-down method. Sometimes, despite fighting the good fight, you lose. If you are ultimately happy with the service you are being provided with then there is no shame in backing down from the haggling fight.

Or Follow Through

If however you don’t mind switching (remember, new customers generally get some cracking deals), keep going. You may well find you get a call back about 5 days before your contract expires pleading with you to reconsider. This worked very well for me with my mobile contract with Three. I had built up a 6 year relationship with the company, but I was not really happy. I am still not, but that is another post altogether. I went through the stages, and eventually asked for my PAC code to transfer my number and close down my account. I had not expected them to let it get to that stage, though.

To my utter surprise, they gave it to me. Without argument.

I rolled with it and followed through. I was not actually all that concerned about losing the service, in reality. Except, 4 days before my contract was due to be shut off, I received a call from their retentions team pleading with me to renew my contract. I spent a good 20 minutes on the phone with them explaining that I did not wish to renew, but would remain if they could reduce my monthly payments.

I received a 15% discount without having to renew my contract. They will apply a 15% discount to my monthly bill on a month-by-month basis until I decide to re-cancel, upgrade or renew. That suits me perfectly!

Haggling is at the end of the day, all about being brazen enough to ask. As someone far wiser than I once quipped: “If you don’t ask, you don’t get!”

Have you haggled, or does the thought of arguing over a price seem embarrassing to you? Share your views in the comments!

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